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Congregation Agudath Sholom
Shabbat Bulletin
VayeraNovember 8, 202517 Cheshvan
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Friday
Candle Lighting4:24 PM
Mincha4:29 PM
Shabbat
Shacharit7:00/8:00/9:00 AM
Latest Shema8:24 AM
Coffee & Commentary8:40 AM
Sephardic Minyan8:45 AM
Melachim Class9:00 AM
Latest Shacharit9:28 AM
Teen Minyan10:00 AM
Shiur10:30 AM
Code Of Jewish Law3:30 PM
Mincha4:20 PM
Havdalah5:24 PM
Shabbat Shalom
Creating a Welcoming Community: The Values and Vision of Avraham and Sara

A couple of years ago, I received an email from a couple who was visiting our community. It was very special and made me proud and grateful as it reflects the values we aspire to embody at our Shul.The note is a heartfelt reminder that each one of us is an ambassador for creating a warm environment in our second home, the Shui.

"Thank you and your congregation for making my husband and I feel so welcome in Succot in your synagogue, as if we were lifelong members ourselves. The warmth you extended to us was especially felt because we were away from family and friends." Thank God, this sentiment is not unique!

I share this message as a opportunity to explore the prime mitzvah at the beginning of this week's Parsha of welcoming guests into our homes. We may not always realize it but the essence of this mitzvah is not inviting only our friends, it is about reaching out to people who may not have a meal. We recently launched the Open Table Project to facilitate this ideal or joining our hospitality email list. It is about recognizing the kindness of being invited to a meal and then reciprocating and inviting people back to our home.

Spending time with friends on Shabbat is a blessing and wonderful. Yet, the mitzvah of Hachnasat Orchim requires much more.

Of all the parshiyot in the Torah, this week's parsha of VeYera serves as a reminder for the nature of this mitzvah. The first role models for Hachnasat Orchim in the Torah are Avraham and Sara. Although Abraham is in pain after having been circumcised at age 99, he and Sarah hurry to take care of travelers he sees in the distance. He does not wait to be asked to host, but he anticipates the needs of others. His raison d'tre is chesed, reaching out to others and he feels a void in his life if he cannot host people.

In fact, welcoming the stranger is so important that it takes priority over a conversation with God. Avraham is in deep contemplation with God when he sees three men at a distance. He interrupts his conversation with God the master of the Universe to extend hospitality. In truth, his actions are not contradictory but a manifestation of his belief in God. His actions are recorded for posterity so that we and future generations will learn the lesson in prioritizing. It is part of our spiritual DNA.

Rabbi Yisrael Salanter taught that someone else's material needs are my spiritual responsibility. Avraham and Sara's actions, proactive approach to kindness with joy, haste and care are a living Code of Jewish Law for all of us.

Our warm gesture is not only about the food, but about connection. I am sure we are all familiar with stories about people whose lives were impacted forever due to the kindness of a Shabbat meal. We have all likely been the beneficiaries of such chesed as well.

Hachnasat Orchim means moving outside our comfort zones. It means welcoming the stranger, people we may not know and/or who do not share our ideology. Avraham and Sara had an "Open Tent" policy. Their tent remained open on all four sides to invite strangers in, regardless of which direction they approached. Hachnasat Orchim is a reflection of our belief that every human is created in God's image.

Ponder these questions:

Besides food, what else are people looking for when they come to your home? How could you provide those things for them?

How can I make others feel welcomed and cared for? What are some of the needs that my guests might have, and how can I provide for them?

What kind of home do I want to build? Who do I want to have as the influences in my home? How can my home be a source of holiness and kindness?

The Talmud teaches that welcoming guests is a higher mitzvah than prayer; that it stands on the same level as welcoming the Shechinah, God's presence, into our homes.

May we all emulate the model of Avraham and Sara and embrace the mitzvah of Hachnasat Orchim each and every day.

Wishing you and your families a Shabbat Shalom and God willing good news from Israel

Rabbi Daniel Cohen

Join us in honoring  our Jewish War Veterans Shabbat morning during the prayer for the United States Armed Forces. We are eternally grateful for their service to our country
Shabbat Topics & Participants
Coffee & CommentaryRabbi Daniel Cohen
Melachim ClassMark Wagshul
ShiurSam Sroka: A Conversation Between Avraham and Halakhic Man at the Border of Gaza
Code of Jewish LawRabbi Yossi Kamman
Seudah ShlishitRabbi Aryeh Roberts: Lessons on How to Host--and Be Hosted
Mazal Tov
  • to Biana & Ben Lanson on Evan's Bar Mitzvah!
  • to Miriam & Josh Sperber on the birth of a baby girl, Rose Nuria! Mazal Tov to siblings David, Elle and Aria!
  • to Elana & Meir Weinberg on the birth of a baby boy!
  • to Stephanie & Nathan Allen on the birth of a baby boy!
  • to Shari Glucksman on her honor as the 2025 Mental Health Champion Award at the Pathways Annual Mental Health Gala this weekend!
  • to Rich Vogel on his appointment by Gov. Ned Lamont as a Trustee of the University of Connecticut!
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Thanks To Our Yom Kippur Donors
Thank You We express our profound gratitude to everyone who has contributed thus far to our Yom Kippur appeal. Whether a lot or a little, the donation from your heart is an eternal investment in our shul and makes a difference! If you have not done so already, please join them.

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Thanks To Our Sponsors
  • Senior Challah Deliveries: Monica & Eric Jankelovits in commemoration of the yahrzeit of Eric's father, Arye Jankelovits/Dovid Aryeh Ben Yitzchak Isaac z"l
  • 7AM Kiddush (11/1): David Bessaleli in memory of his beloved wife Janet z"l
  • Chapel Kiddush: Co-sponsored by Dina Berger in commemoration of the yahrzeit of her mother, Florence Sternbach z"l (Frima bat Eliezer and Sarah); and Jodi & Richard Boxer in commemoration of the yahrzeit of Jodi's father, Leo Zuckerberg z"l (Lev Ben Dov)
  • Sephardic Kiddush: The Hanna Family in honor of Joe Hanna and Michelle Ickowics' upcoming wedding
  • Sanctuary Kiddush: Biana & Ben Lanson in celebration of Evan's Bar Mitzvah
  • Teen Kiddush: Rachel & Dan Haron in honor of Gabriel and Hannah's birthdays
  • Seudah Shlishit: Jaffa & Pinchas Gross in memory of their beloved parents, Shalom & Beila Gross and Moshe & Amalia Hanit
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