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Congregation Agudath Sholom Shabbat Bulletin

Congregation Agudath Sholom
Shabbat Bulletin
Ki TisaShabbat ParahMarch 11, 202318 Adar 5783
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Friday
Candle Lighting5:37 PM
Mincha5:42 PM
Shabbat
Shacharit7:00 AM/8:00 AM/9:00 AM
Latest Shema8:28 AM
Sephardic Minyan8:45 AM
Shmuel Class9:00 AM
Latest Shacharit9:40 AM
Bob's Basics10:00 AM
Shiur10:30 AM
Code of Jewish Law4:40 PM
Mishna and Munchies with Noah Kalander (4th-6th Graders)5:00 PM
Mincha5:30 PM
Havdalah6:38 PM
Shabbat Shalom
A World of One

We may not change the world, but we can change the world of one person each day.

Purim is in our rear view mirrors in time, but must not be in spirit.

More than any other holiday, Purim emphasizes the power of one person to make a difference. In the critical juncture in the story, it is Esther's fate to plead with Achashverosh for the safety of her people. She is reticent as the risk of death is great, for anyone who enters the king's chambers without permission would be killed. During this moment of truth, Mordechai tells her, "Who knows if for this time you were chosen to be the queen." Perhaps Esther's entire purpose in this position of influence was for this opportunity. She must rise to the occasion.

In essence, every encounter with another person can be transformed into an eternal one. There is no meeting that is random. When we are faced with an opportunity to speak up, perform a kind deed, a mitzvah, it is God's way of calling on us to make an impact and make a difference. It is the secret of leading a meaningful life. In the words of Mark Twain, "The two most important days of your life are the day you are born and the day you understand why." God orchestrates many of these moments. It is our sacred task to infuse them with holiness.

In his book Spirituality of Imperfection, Ernest Kurtz speaks to this idea. I am grateful to Howard Fogel for recommending this book. He writes, "Past the seeker, as he prayed, came the crippled and the beggar and the beaten. And seeing them, the holy one went down into deep prayer and cried, "Great God, how is it that a loving creator can see such things and yet do nothing about them?"

And out of the long silence, God said: "I did do something about them. I created you."

We are created to serve God and humanity. We are designed to reveal the light inside of us every day and share it with the world. Each person is a world in and of themselves.

Wishing you and your families a Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Daniel Cohen


Shabbat Information 
  • Learn about the Shabbat Torah Reading for Parshat Ki Tisa with the insights of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks z"l - click here
  • Read Rabbi Kurtz's weekly halachic essays on the parsha here.
  • We remove two sifrei Torah. In the second Sefer Torah the Maftir reads Parshas Parah in Chukas (Numbers 19:1-22). (Some maintain that the obligation to read Parshas Parah is mandated by the Torah.)
  • The Haftorah of Parshas Parah is read from Ezekiel 36:16-38
  • Haftarah summary by Chabad.org - click here
  • Haftarah summary by Haftarah Helper - click here
  • The Av HaRachamim prayer is not recited.
  • Would you like to read the Torah or Haftara for your bar mitzvah parsha? Let us know by clicking here.

Parsha Icebreakers (Courtesy of Yaakov Moshe Shmidman)
  1. Recall a time when you misunderstood someone's instructions (Klal Yisrael doesn't realize that Moshe meant 40 full days).
  2. Recall a time you stood up for Judaism/Hashem (Moshe says mi laHashem alai and shevet Levi responds).
  3. Recall a time you advocated on someone or something's behalf (Moshe davens for Klal Yisrael after the cheit ha'egel).

Scholar in Residence Rabbi Irving Elson Schedule  We are blessed this Shabbat to host Rabbi Irving Elson CAPT, USN (Ret) - Vice President, Director, JWB Jewish Chaplains Council and his wife Fran. We are grateful to Lonnie Keene for sponsoring the weekend in memory of his father Harold Keene, Tzvi Ben Mordechai. Rabbi Elson will speak on Friday evening at 8 PM, Shabbat morning at 11 AM and Shabbat afternoon at seudah shlishit at 6 PM. We also recognize our USAF veterans on Shabbat morning.

CAS Annual Dinner

CAS ANNUAL DINNER
March 19, 5pm

Gather the people to me that I may let them hear My words, in order that they may learn to revere Me as long as they live on earth, and may so teach their children.

Gather to celebrate our honorees for their Dedication and commitment to our community...


Guests of Honor

Meredith and David Cohen


Young Leadership Award

Jessica and Eytan Sosnovich


Community Service Award

Sandy and Michael Kamen

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Thanks to our participants who have signed up to date! Why not join them?

Mariya Feldman & Alex Abramov
Adrienne & Michael Alexander
Barbara & Ron Ashkenas
Gayle & Mitchell Bell
Dina & Paul Berger
Stacie & Aaron Berk
Karen & Ira Berk
Lynn & Harvey Berman
Darona & Tzvi Bernstein
Linda Beson Nursing Fund
Stephanie & Josh Bilenker
Jodi & Richard Boxer
Eileen & Robert Breakstone
Sarah & Justin Breiner
Carol & Wil Brewer
Sima Broza
Judith & Jeffrey Cahn
Emily & Harvey Caney
Anita & Richard Chargar
Anat & Marc Chavkin
Meredith & David Cohen
Diane & Rabbi Daniel Cohen
Joseph Cohen
Elise & Steven Cohen
Suzanne, Jeff & Asher Cohen
Rachel & Moshe Cohen
Elior & David Coleman
Rachel & Nimrod Dayan
Vivi & Rabbi Yisrael Deren
Emily & Zvi Dubitzky
Jessica & Levi Dulitz
Can Dyman
Rita Edelston
Arlene Ettinger
Jan & Ross Evans
Debra & Daniel Faizakoff
Sharon & Michael Feldstein
Stephanie & Howard Fogel
Jennie & Ben Folkinshteyn
Mindi Olsson & Steve Frank
Rhoda & Avram Freedberg
Lynne & Steven Frenkel
Gayle & Richard Frohwirth
Jessica & Adam Furmansky
Miriam & Joseph Gelb
Arline Gewanter
Risa & Jeff Goldblum
Judy & Howard Goldstein
Hilary & Ari Goldstein
Michelle & Howland Gordon
Shira & Ethan Green
Jill & Arthur Green
Elise Kamen & Steven Grossblatt and Family
Joyce & Lawrence Haber
Rachel & Jeremy Hager
Kayla & Leon Hanna
Meg & Yoav Haron
Kamal Haron
Leora & Steven Hauptman
Theresa & Elie Herman
Tricia & Robert Hoff
Shara & David Israel
Monica & Eric Jankelovits
David Jelen
Sandra & Michael Kamen
Elizabeth & Efrem Kamen and Family
Heather & Marc Kamen and Family
Helene & Harvey Kaminski
Flora & Carl Kaufman
Lonnie Keene
Elissa & Philip Klapper
Rebecca & Emilio Krausz
Carol & Allen Krim
Michelle & Ron Kutas
Lorraine & David Kweskin
Jill LaSala
Biana & Benjamin Lanson
Hannah & Ilan Lastoff
Hannah & Michael Lefkovich
Tamar & Jason Levine
David Levine
Marla & Jason Lewis
Ana & Albert Lilienfeld
Vered & Mark Links
Gwen Lopez-Cohen
Devorah & Bradley Lowenstein
Nicole & Jonathan Makovsky
Roselyn Mangot
Lorraine Hutzler & James Marcus
Susan & Len Mark
Dinah Miller & Seth Marlowe
Rhonda Schaffer-Maron & Jeffrey Maron
Marilyn & Howard Marwill
Deborah & Neil Metviner
Janice & Jake Meyer
Kori & Bill Meyers
Marguerite & Ken Neuhaus
Bruce Newman
Tina & Yossi Notik
Barbara Novak
Doreen & Howard Nusbaum
Alex & Brett Olsson
Dawn Park
Anne Peskin
Cindy & David Pitkoff
Marina Sapir & Alex Podelko
Esti & Stu Pollak
Judy & Bob Raymond
Maria & Glenn Reicin
Linda Rezak
Roberta & Barry Richter
The Romanowitz Family
Laura & Keith Rosenbloom
Jen & Ed Rosenfeld
Dorothy Levine & Alvin Rosenfeld
Chani & Josh Rosenfeld
Sherri & Allen Rosenthal
Gayle & Howard Rothman
Sara & Yonnie Rubinfeld
Linda & Len Russ
Shira & Jason Saibel
Toby Schaffer
Aviva & Paul Schieber
Ivy & Marvin Schildkraut
Ilyse & Dean Schuckman
Richard Schwartz
Rachel Seligson
Rochelle & Edward Senker
Helen & Sheldron Seplowitz
Pam & Alan Shanker
Stephanie & Robert Sherman
Ronnie & Steve Sichel
Wendy & Jared Siegel
Diane & Elliot Sloyer
Jennie & Josh Small
Kathy & Gary Sosnovich
Jessica & Eytan Sosnovich
Miriam & Joshua Sperber
Amy & Samuel Sroka
Eve & Philip Steinmetz
Liba & Steven Steinmetz
Judith Dalgin & Norman Suchin
Joanne Hoffer & Lee Tawil
Laura & Seth Tobin
Pamela & Richard Vogel
Sandi & Stuart Waldstreicher
Audrey Waldstreicher
Emily & Michael Wirgin
Sharon & Simeon Wohlberg
Howard Wolfe
Harrison Wreschner
Neda Khaghan & Robert Yaghoubian
Shushannah & Ari Yasgur
Hillary & Robert Zitter
Navah & David Zizmor
Shira & Mitchell Zucker
Condolences
  • to Lloyd Contract on the passing of his sister, Zita Berg
  • We are deeply saddened by the passing of Jeff Benson. If you have memories of him you would like to share, please send them to his sister, Carol Irom at haharaanana@gmail.com
For up to date shiva and contact info: www.cas-stamford.org/shiva
To make a memorial contribution online, and have us send an acknowledgement to the family, please click here
Mazal Tov
  • to our members Alisa & Jeremy Weisser and Tamar Rosenfeld on their honors at the Young Israel Gala Brunch this Sunday!
  • to Martin & Susan Berkoff and Michael & Sue Berkoff on the arrival of a great-grandson and grandson named Nathanial James Wall!
  • to Hannah & Ilan Lastoff on Charlie's Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat!
Celebrate with the family! Make a donation in their honor and we will send an acknowledgement to the family. Just click here
Welcome
  • new members Jon Eskreis-Winkler & Tali Winkler and their son Yoni!
  • Scholar-in-Residence Rabbi Irv Elson and his wife Fran who are joining us this Shabbat
Thank You
  • Lonnie Keene for sponsoring the Scholar-in-Residence weekend in memory of his father Harold Keene, Tzvi Ben Mordechai
  • Mitchell Bell, Aaron Goldenberg, Ben Lerner and Bruce Newman for serving the pizza on Purim night and the Men's Club for their sponsorship!
  • Amy Sroka for organizing the Mishloach Manot for the Seniors at Atria and Edge Hill!
  • Yonnie Rubenfeld and Jessica Sosnovich for organizing a great Purim seudah!
Shabbat Topics & Participants
Shmuel ClassMark Wagshul
Bob's BasicsBob Abrams
ShiurRabbi Dr. Jeffrey Cahn: Purim Postscript: Life Lessons from the Megillah
Sanctuary SermonRabbi Irving Elson: What Do We Worship?
Code of Jewish LawRabbi Yossi Kamman
Seudat ShlishitRabbi Irving Elson: Halachic Challenges in Today's military
Thanks To Our Sponsors
Challah Deliveries: Andrea & Daniel Aaron in honor of Ana & Albert Lilienfeld

Chapel Kiddush: Monica & Eric Jankelovits in commemoration of the yahrzeit of Eric's mother, Erna Jankelovits of blessed memory

Sanctuary Kiddush/Seudat Shlishit: Ana & Albert Lilienfeld in honor of the Scholar-in-Residence, Rabbi Irving A. Elson, the brother of Ana Lilienfeld
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Upcoming Events
Literature At Lunch Roundtable Led By Dr. Richard Schwartz 
Wednesday, March 15 - 12:00 PM
Our fifth year of the monthly Literature at Lunch Roundtable will continue with our leader Dr. Richard Schwartz in person at CAS and on Zoom. Introducing sandwiches and sides from 613 to enhance our conversations. If you plan to attend in person, please respond by Tuesday, March 14 at noon, so I can order accordingly. To celebrate Women's History Month, we will read One Art by Elizabeth Bishop (1911-1979).We will segue to a few Biblical heroines e.g. Queen Esther and Ruth, who have been accorded eponymous biblical books.For paradigms of grief and mourning we will turn to our Matriarchs Sarah and Rachel. If you have any questions pleasecontact RJ@richardjschwartz.com Zoom Meeting ID 878 4408 7429 Passcode 868450

Ct Torah Virtual Seminar Of Pesach Ideas And Inspiration  
Wednesday, March 29 - 8:00 PM
Seder Night Online Prep! Rabbi Yitzchok Adler - Congregation Beth David; Rivka Alter - Yoetzet Halacha Congregation Agudath Sholom; Rabbi Fred Hyman - Westville Synagogue; Rabbi Eli Kohl - Young Israel of Stamford; Ruthie Braffman Shulman - Yoetzet Halacha/Community Scholar Young Israel of West Hartford; and Rabbi Greg Wall - Beit Chaverim Synagogue.Zoom Meeting ID: 821 1664 3315, Passcode: 345086.For more information, contact Rabbi Daniel Cohen at rabbicohen@cas-stamford.org
CAS Announcements
  • PSA Rabbi Yirmiyahu Moldovan will be at Passover Fair on Sunday and available to check Mezuzot and for Tefillin Maintenance
  • SEDER HOSPITALITY: Planning your Seder? In need of a Seder? If you would like to join a family seder or would consider hosting members of our community who may need a place for Pesach night contact Rabbi Cohen or Rabbi Kurtz.
  • CONGREGATION AGUDATH SHOLOM YOUNG COUPLES LEARNING SESSION WITH RABBI DANIEL COHEN Wednesday, March 15th at 8:00 pm at the home of Yishai and Michal Zwiren - Topic: "Top Insights and Inspiration for your Seder". (BYOI-Bring Your Own Ideas). To register, contact Lorraine.Hutzler@gmail.com
  • ANNUAL PRE PESACH PSA All non-processed meat and chicken is kosher for Pesach. Buy now and freeze for Pesach before prices go up.(Please note: This doesn't apply to ground meat)
  • AGUDATH SHOLOM TO HOST RABBI YONI ROSENSWEIG, SPEAKING ON MENTAL HEALTH AND JEWISH LAW Agudath Sholom is pleased to welcome Rabbi Yoni Rosensweig, the spiritual leader of the Netzach Menashe community in Beit Shemesh, who will deliver a lecture on "Modern Jewish Approaches to Mental Health Challenges" at the synagogue on Monday evening, April 17th at 8PM.
  • STAMFORD BOOK LAUNCH OF THE SECRET OF THE LIGHT BY RABBI DANIEL COHEN "A must-read for anyone in touch with their spirit and in search of their purpose." The Stamford JCC invites the community to a presentation and conversation with Rabbi Daniel Cohen about his latest book, The Secret of the Light. The event will be on Thursday evening, April 20th at 7:30 PM In a world filled with despair and darkness, the Secret ignites hope and light. Discover a timeless road map to deepen our faith in God, ourselves, and humanity and that no time, person, or place is devoid of God's light. Register here
  • CHAYA SIMA KOENIGSBERG TO SPEAK AT CAS SPRING SCHOLAR SERIES Chaya Sima Koenigsberg, an up and coming, highly respected Judaic Studies scholar, will be this year's featured speaker at Congregation Agudath Sholom's four-part spring scholar series. She will be giving a class on four consecutive Wednesday evenings in May - May 3, 10, 17, and 24. Each class will begin at 8PM, and will be held at Congregation Agudath Sholom. The theme will be Illuminating Medieval Ashkenaz: Studies in Text and Imagery
  • NEW INITIATIVE FOR WOMEN EXPERIENCING FERTILITY CHALLENGES Are you or someone you know experiencing fertility challenges or pregnancy loss? If you/they could use help with meals, please reach out to Chani Zweiter at chani.kovacs@gmail.com and she can arrange meals for the family. The recipient can remain anonymous and will receive dinners from strictly kosher homes. The community is here to support those experiencing difficult challenges.
Shabbat Shalom
Michael Feldstein's latest column  click here
Weekday Schedule
ShacharitShacharit: Sunday 7:15 AM/8:30 AM, Monday-Friday 6:30 AM/7:30 AM
MinchaMincha: Sunday-Thursday 6:50 PM, Friday 6:49 PM
Candles Friday6:44 PM
SundayDaylight Savings Begins
Rabbi Office Hours
Update on Rabbi Cohen's & Rabbi Kurtz's Open Office HoursOpen Office Hours are an opportunity to drop by to see our Rabbis without an appointment. They will be available in their office for guidance or a chat. Rabbis will not schedule meetings during these hours, which will be held around the same time each week. Call the office to confirm Rabbi Cohen or Rabbi Kurtz are not attending to an urgent matter outside the synagogue. Open Office Hour Times for this Week
Rabbi Daniel Cohen
  • Tuesday, March 14, 3:30 PM - 4:00 PM at Beldotti Bakeries, 605 Newfield Ave, Stamford, CT 06905, USA
  • Friday, March 17, 10:30 AM - 11:30 AM at Beldotti Bakeries, 605 Newfield Ave, Stamford, CT 06905, USA
Rabbi Moshe Kurtz
  • Monday, March 13, 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM at CAS
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Community Announcements
  • REGISTRATION FOR FCCJBL JEWISH BASEBALL LEAGUE IS OPEN! This league is a shomer Shabbat league for children ages 4-12. All games will be played on Sundays, starting 4/16-6/18. Sign up on www.fccjbl.org. Please reach out to info@fccjbl.org with any questions.
  • THE STAMFORD CHEVRA KADISHA WELCOMES RABBI DR. SHLOMO BRODY, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF EIMATAI Sunday, March 12th, at 8PM, at the Young Israel of Stamford, for an important lecture: "New Dilemmas in End-of-Life Care: Halakhic Perspectives" Free and open to the entire community.
  • JWC WOMEN'S HEALTH EVENING - NURTURING OUR PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL HEALTH Wednesday, March 15 at 7:00 PM at Chabad of Stamford, 770 High ridge road, Stamford, 06905. Join us to discover how to nurture both our physical and spiritual health. Breast cancer is common, and when diagnosed early, very treatable. Some Jewish women are at higher risk, Join our panel of expert surgeons and oncologists* to learn what you can do to protect yourself, your family, and your community. We will also discover the spiritual dimension of women's health from a Jewish perspective. Sponsored by Avraham Plastlc Surgery - Light Refreshments will be served
  • JTT SKI TRIP We will be hitting the slopes on March 26th for a fun day at Hunter Mountain.Trip inclusions: transportation, kosher meals, snacks, optional beginner lessons, and a really good time. More details and sign up here: tinyurl.com/fctskitrip - SIGN UPS CLOSE MARCH 16!
  • PURCHASE YOUR TICKETS FOR THE BCHA PLAYERS PRODUCTION OF DISNEY'S FROZEN JR The show includes your favorite Frozen songs as well as wonderful new songs from the Broadway production. With its empowering message of love andunderstanding, Frozen JR. is sure to melt your heart! Best of all, the show features 35 BCHA students (grades 5-12) on stage, with more working backstage, on lights, on sound, and even in our orchestra pit!! Come cheer on CAS's very own members: Ben Daniel, Noah Doft, Yakira, Yael and Yoav Hochman, Eden Cohen, Mackenzie Makovsky, Talia Steinberg, Hannah Tobin, Liv Haron, Eva Halperin, Lilah Gordon, Yael Rosenfeld, Noa Zizmor, Yoni Weisser! Performances will be Thursday night March 23 at 7pm, Friday, March 24 at 1:30pm, and Sunday, March 26 at 11am and 3pm. Tickets can be purchased online at TicketTailor/events/BCHA - the sooner you buy, the better your seats.
  • ORTHODOX YOUNG SINGLE PROFESSIONALS WHITE PLAINS SHABBATON March 24-25. Ages 24-36. $130 Early Bird Rate, $150 after March 1st. Includes meals, program & accommodations. For information, visit yiwp.org/shabbaton23. Contact shabbaton2023@yiwp.org for questions.
  • AN EVENING WITH SCHOKE JFS Sunday, May 21st, 5:30 PM. Schoke Jewish Family Service invites you to its annual gala, An Evening with Schoke JFS - Feeding the Community at the Italian Center of Stamford, 1620 Newfield Avenue, in an outdoor tented pavilion. Mimi Cohen and Rhoda & Avram Freedberg are the recipients of the 43rd Annual Mitzvah Award, United Jewish Federation of Stamford, New Canaan, and Darien and Jewish Federation of Greater Fairfield County are recipients of the Community Service Award, and the Mitzvah Match Families including the Bradley, Fischel, Gradman, Katz, Sperber, Speter, Tobin, Yasgur, and Zizmor families are recipients of the Volunteer of the Year Award. The evening's events will be hosted by the weather anchor for NBC 4 New York, David Price. The event is co-chaired by Connie Freeman and Jillian Klaff with Jeri Appel as auction chair and Meryl Japha, Liz Kitay, and Ronnie Sichel serving as advisors. General tickets include dinner and dessert for $250, purchase your ticket at www.ctjfs.org. Contact Lisa Rich at 203-921-4161 or lrich@ctjfs.org to place a journal.
  • SCHOKE JFS IS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU - LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR ONGOING SUPPORT GROUPS Bereavement Support Group available at Schoke Jewish Family Service, for more information please contact, Rebekah Kanefsky, Interim Director of Clinical and Family Life Services at rkanefsky@ctjfs.org or 203-921-4161.

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