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 |  | | Tetzaveh | Shushan Purim Katan | February 24, 2024 | 15 Adar I 5784 | 
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 |  | | | Friday |  |  | Candle Lighting | 5:19 PM |  | Mincha | 5:24 PM |  | Shabbat |  |  | Shacharit | 7:00/8:00/9:00 AM |  | Latest Shema | 8:41 AM |  | Sephardic Minyan | 8:45 AM |  | Coffee & Commentary | 8:45 AM |  | Shmuel Class | 9:00 AM |  | Latest Shacharit | 9:50 AM |  | Shiur | 10:30 AM |  | Code Of Jewish Law | 4:25 PM |  | Mincha | 5:15 PM |  | Havdalah | 6:21 PM | 
 | Knock First Some Torah portions are more easily adaptable to a modern message than others. This week is one of the more challenging at first blush. The Parsha of Tetzaveh speaks about the role of Aharon in lighting the menorah in the Tabernacle and the garments of the Kohanim. What are the life lessons for us? In truth, the intricate design of the garments are laden with mystical significance and import. However, none of the purposes are spelled out except for one. The Kohen Gadol wore a four-cornered robe of blue wool whose hem was adorned with alternating golden pomegranates and bells.  The Torah tells us it is because "its sound should be heard when he enters the Sanctuary before Hashem." Our Sages explain that the bells are meant to teach us basic decency and decorum.  We must not invade the privacy of others by injecting ourselves into their presence without warning. Proper etiquette is to knock on the door before entering. Just as the bells announced the Kohen Gadol's arrival in the Sanctuary, so must we announce ourselves wherever we go and not barge in unexpectedly. The rationale is odd. God knows when the Kohen Gadol is approaching. Why did the Torah choose to teach this lesson in this setting? The commentators explain that the Torah is teaching us that even in the pursuit of high spiritual goals one cannot bend the rules of simple decency. For this reason, some people recite the words, "I accept upon myself the commandment to love my neighbor as themselves, as they enter into Shul to pray to God." Our vertical relationship depends on our horizontal relationships. Nothing was more important than the Kohen Gadol entering the Holy of Holies, and yet the rules of simple decency always took precedence. Wishing you and your families a Shabbat Shalom and God willing an immediate return of the hostages, victory and peace speedily and in our days ahead, Rabbi Daniel Cohen | 
 | Shabbat Information  Learn about the Shabbat Torah Reading for Parshat Tetzaveh with the insights of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks z"l - click herePlease find Dovi Siderson's weekly parsha resource here The Haftarah is read from Ezekiel 43:10-27Haftarah summary by Chabad.org - click hereHaftarah summary by Haftarah Helper - click hereWould you like to read the Torah or Haftara for your bar mitzvah parsha? Let us know by clicking here. Parsha Icebreakers (Courtesy of Elisheva and Yaakov Moshe Shmidman)
  What is something that is important to your daily routine (ner tamid)?   What are the fanciest clothes or outfit you have ever worn (the bigdei Kehuna)? What is one thing you would ask Hashem on behalf of Am Yisroel if we had the Urim v'Tumim (Choshen and Urim v'Tumim)? 
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 | Security Update On Monday, March 4th, the door codes will be changed.  If you are a CAS member, please call the office or ask a CAS staff member for the new code. 
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 | Baby Nursing Room The Bridal room is now available for all nursing mothers and babies.  As a courtesy to others, no children other than nursing babies are allowed in the room.  It will remain closed, but unlocked during the minyanim.  The room is a work-in-progress with new furniture arriving shortly.  If there's anything you think is needed, please reach out to Jessica Sosnovich or Tamar Levine. 
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 | Shabbat Topics & Participants | 
 | Shmuel Class | Mark Wagshul |  | Shiur | Ari Lieberman:  Is it Permitted to Go Topless, or is it Halachikly Required to Wear a Kipa? |  | Post-Kiddush Shiur | GPATS Student Leora Muskat: Rulings & Remembrance - Exploring Choshen Mishpat |  | Code of Jewish Law | Rabbi Yossi Kamman |  | Seudat Shlishit | GPATS Student Penina Spearman: To Bow or Not to Bow - From Yaakov Avinu to Mordechai HaTzaddik | 
 | to our GPATS scholars Leora Muskat and Penina Spearman
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 | to Sharon & Simeon Wohlberg on the engagement of their son Jason to Shelby Weller, daughter of Marsha and Ely Weller of Skokie, IL!
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 | to Marguerite & Ken Neuhaus on the engagement of their son Remy to Noa Friedman, daughter of Gail & Avi Friedman of White Plains, NY!
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 | to Hadassah & Senator Joe Lieberman on the recent Bar Mitzvah celebration of their grandson, Akiva Lowenstein!
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 | to Sharon & Jeff Lewis on the arrival of a granddaughter, Aliza Adar!
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 Celebrate with the family! Make a donation in their honor and we will send an acknowledgement to the family. Just click here| We wish comfort to the family of Charles Axelrod
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 | to everyone who has signed up to attend our annual dinner on March 10th and/or taken out an ad in our journal!  It is not too late to sign up! Please see the dinner section below.
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 | Senior Challah Deliveries: Tami & David Raymer in honor of Rabbi Cohen
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 | Early Kiddush: Judy & Jeff Cahn commemorating the yahrzeit of Judy's mother, Helen Altschuler z"l
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 | Chapel Kiddush: Rica & Ari Lieberman in commemoration of the Sheloshim for Gayle Judson, and in honor of their making Aliyah
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 | Sanctuary Kiddush: David Levine in gratitude for successful cataract surgery enabling him to read Haftarahs for the first time in several years
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 | Seudat Shlishit: Anonymous in memory of Ruth Chaya Bas Abraham
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 |                                                                                                 | CAS ANNUAL DINNERMarch 10, 5pm
 Am Yisrael Chai.  It is not just a Statement, it is a Way of Life. Celebrate our honorees for their Dedication and commitment to our community... Guests of Honor
 Dinah Miller & Seth Marlowe Young Leadership Award
 Amy & Sam Sroka Community Service Award
 Chris Beldotti, Mike Beldotti & the Beldotti Family Chai Award
 Judd Love                                                                                                                                                                                                 |  |                                                                          | | Thanks to our participants who have signed up to date!  Why not join them?  |  | Mariya Feldman & Alex Abramov Deb & Joel Adelberg
 Sarah & Gavriel Adler
 Adrienne & Michael Alexander
 Susan Amin
 Barbara & Ron Ashkenas
 Sharyn & Frederick Baer
 Sharon & Gideon Bari
 Gayle & Mitchell Bell
 Debbie & Michael Berg
 Karen & Ira Berk
 Sylvia & Steven Berkowitz
 Darona & Tzvi Bernstein
 Melody & Claude Bernstein
 Stephanie & Joshua Bilenker
 Eileen & Bob Breakstone
 Judy & Jeff Cahn
 Diane & Rabbi Daniel Cohen
 Rachel & Ephraim Cohen
 Elise & Steven Cohen
 Tammy & Evan Cohen
 Rachel & Nimrod Dayan
 Max, Rebecca and AJ Dayan
 Vivi & Rabbi Yisrael Deren
 Lauren & Joshua Esses
 Sharon & Michael Feldstein
 Tamara Feurstein
 Stephanie & Howard Fogel
 Rhoda & Avram Freedberg
 Lynne & Steven Frenkel
 Jessica & Adam Furmansky
 Miriam Gelb
 Roberta & Steven Gochman
 Judith & Howard Goldstein
 Meryl & David Gordon
 Gloria Green
 Joyce & Larry Haber
 Kamal Haron
 Meghan & Yoav Haron
 Beth & David Held
 Sheryl Hertzberg
 Diane Indyk
 Shara & David Israel
 Monica & Eric Jankelovits
 Sandra & Michael Kamen
 Helene & Harvey Kaminski
 Flora & Carl Kaufman
 Elissa & Philip Klapper
 Elaine & Ilya Kohen
 Devora & Scott Kove
 Rebecca & Emilio Krausz
 Marisa & Rabbi Moshe Kurtz
 Lorraine & David Kweskin
 Judy & Seth Lerner
 Shoshana & Doniel Levie
 Tamar & Jason Levine
 Marla & Jason Lewis
 Marilyn & Judah Lifschitz
 Ana & Albert Lilienfeld
 Vered & Mark Links
 Rhonda & Judd Love
 Janelle & Jayson Love
 Barbara & Ephraim Love
 Nicole & Jonathan Makovsky
 Roselyn Mangot
 | Miriam & Jonathan Marcus Lorraine & James Marcus
 Susan & Len Mark
 Dinah Miller & Seth Marlowe
 Rabbi Noah Marlowe
 Rina Marlowe
 Rhonda Schaffer-Maron & Jeffrey Maron
 Deborah & Neil Metviner
 Jake & Janice Meyer
 Kori & Bill Meyers
 Michael Miller
 Deb & Walt Morgenthaler
 Shira & Marc Nerenberg
 Marguerite & Ken Neuhaus
 Irwin Niedober
 Doreen & Howard Nusbaum
 Alex & Brett Olsson
 Alison & Nate Pava
 Anne Peskin
 Cindy & David Pitkoff
 Marina Sapir & Alex Podelko
 Ellen & Mark Putter
 Judy & Bob Raymond
 Lizzie & Eli Reichner
 Maria & Glenn Reicin
 Sherri & Allen Rosenthal
 Gayle & Howard Rothman
 Shira Marder & Jason Saibel
 Helene & Nathaniel Samberg
 Toby Schaffer
 Aviva & Paul Schieber
 Ivy & Marvin Schildkraut
 Carol & Myles Schiller
 Caryn & Ben Schiller and Family
 Debra Schneiderman
 Ilyse & Dean Schuckman
 Rabbi Hayim Schwartz
 Rachel Seligson
 Rochelle & Edward Senker
 Pam & Alan Shanker
 Rosalyn Novick Sherman
 Stephanie & Robert Sherman
 Ronnie & Steve Sichel
 Sarah & Arielle Snow
 Selena & Yosef Snow and Family
 Kathy & Gary Sosnovich
 Miriam & Joshua Sperber
 Rochelle & Louis Sroka
 Liba & Steven Steinmetz
 Eve & Philip Steinmetz
 Thomas M. Gallagher Funeral Home
 Rebecca & Jonathan Tipermas
 Laura & Seth Tobin
 Sandi & Stuart Waldstreicher
 Audrey Waldstreicher
 Sarah Bierman & Daniel Wallis
 Howard Weiss
 Sharon & Simeon Wohlberg
 Howard Wolfe
 Shushannah & Ari Yasgur
 Helene Zimmerman
 Hillary & Robert Zitter
 Navah & David Zizmor
 Chani & Rabbi Oran Zweiter
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 |  | | Stamford Jewish Experience Skating at Mill River Park | 
 | Sunday, February 25 - 5:00 PM | 
 |  | | Sunday, February 25 - 8:00 PM | 
 | | Matzah from Southern Israel [Limited Opportunity] | 
 |  | | Tuesday, February 27 - 8:00 PM | 
 | | Sunday Family-Friendly Minyan | 
 | Sunday, March 3 - 8:30 AM | 
 |  | | Stuart Hershkowitz - Israels Real Existential Threat | 
 | Sunday, March 3 - 10:00 AM | 
 | | Dr. Glenn Dynner Book Launch: The Light of Learning - Hasidism in Poland on the Eve of the Holocaust | 
 | Wednesday, March 6 - 6:00 PM | 
 |  | | Sunday, March 10 - 10:00 AM | 
 | | CAS Youth Fundraiser - Mishloach Manot | 
 |  | | CAS Rookies and Vets Potluck Shabbat Lunch | 
 | Shabbat, March 16 - 12:30 PM | 
 | | CAS Young Families presents Hollywood Purim Party | 
 | Shabbat, March 16 - 9:00 PM | 
 |  | | CAS Mens Club Passover Fair | 
 | Sunday, March 17 - 10:00 AM | 
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 | Israel MEALuim Update - Our Support Matters!  To Join the Mitzvah, visit https://tzohar-eng.org/mealuim/ 
 Rabbi Cohen-- Your community's participation in MEALuim has made a significant difference in the lives of IDF miluim families.   Especially now, as the war has extended into almost 4 months, the absence of a spouse and parent is even more profound and difficult.  The homefront has become one of the more important places where we need to place our support.  Overall we have thus far  provided over 5000 meals to hundreds of families.Using Tzohar's strong connection we have been able to identify and serve those most affected by their soldier's absence and with limited local support. We have focused on ten yishuvim, and sporadic individual families.15 Agudath Sholom Congregation members participated thus far, donating 418 meals.  The recipients of these meals were primarily families in Katamonim Jerusalem, an area with many young men in miluim.  Yasher Koach!! Please deepen and expand the support!
 Am Yisrael Chai
 
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 | Highlights from Rabbi Daniel and Diane Cohen's trip to visit our CAS snowbirds in Florida  click here
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 | In case you missed it  We had a nice crowd for this past Tuesday's Whiskey and Spirits Tasting organized by the 55+ Empty Nesters Committee. Click here to view some pictures.
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 | We need 4 more volunteers to be on the 55+ Year Old Empty Nester's Committee  The activities are:  1) Plan and implement event(s) for 55+ Year-Old Empty Nesters; 2) Get other people involved; 3) Brainstorm. If you are interested, please contact Bruce Newman at bruce.newman8@gmail.com.
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 | Check out article  featuring Rabbi Cohen and Rabbinic leaders joining Christian clergy advocating on Capital Hill in support of Israel - click here
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 | Did you Know? Rabbi Daniel Cohen and Rabbi Moshe Kurtz host weekly podcasts Judaism in the 21st Century with Rabbi Daniel Cohen and Dr. Steve Labkoff - click hereShu"T First, Ask Questions Later with Rabbi Moshe Kurtz - click here
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 | Calling all women - teens to 100 Would you like to be a reader at our annual Megillat Esther Women's Tefillah? We can teach you and support you to learn a few pesukim or a few perakim . Contact Ziona Doft zionadoft@yahoo.com or Ronnie Sichel ronsichel@aol.com for details.
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 | Save the Date  March 16th - Chazan Duvie ShapiroMay 13th - Yom Hazikaron, Yom Haatzmaut at Agudath SholomMay 18th - Chazan Zevi MullerMay 23rd - Bret Stephens at Agudath Sholom - Dedicated to the memories of Royce and Dr. Al Wolfsohn 
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 | CAS Women's Club Crafty Ladies  will not meet until the Spring.  A huge thank you to all who have knitted hats for the IDF.  If you are recently knitting one or would like to, please contact Johanna (917) 558-3904) or Audrey (718-564-5340).  Finished hats can be brought into the shul to Kim at the front desk.  If you would like a copy of the knitting instructions for the wool hats, please contact Kim at the shul's office and she will email you one, or you may drop in and pick one up.
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 | Holy Habit - Food Pantry Donations  Rather than wait for a Food Drive, make it a habit each week when shopping for Shabbos to purchase kosher, non-perishable food for the Freedberg Kosher Food Pantry.Drop off at JFS or CAS
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 | Gratitude to Our Growing Group of Minyan AttendeesA heartfelt thank you to the men and women of Congregation Agudath Sholom for their unwavering commitment to daily minyan attendance. Your presence and participation make a significant difference in the lives of those who come to pray and sets a positive religious example for our entire community. Below is a growing list of people who are committed to attending minyan at least once a week (in addition to Shabbos):
 
 
 | Aaron Berk Alan Shanker
 Albert Lilienfeld
 Barry Michelson
 Bruce Newman
 Can Dyman
 Carl Kaufman
 Daniel Wallis
 David Bessaleli
 David Cohen
 David Jelen
 David Zizmor
 Debra Faizakoff
 Dovi Zucker
 Eli Reichner
 Ephraim Zucker
 Howland Gordon
 Jake Meyer
 Jeff Cahn
 Jesse Salver
 Jonathan Osser
 Joseph Feuerstein
 Judd Love
 Lisa Michelson
 Mark Link
 Matt Greenberg
 
 | Michael Alexander Michael Feldstein
 Mike Berg
 Mitchell Bell
 Mitchell Zucker
 Mitch Mailman
 Nat Samberg
 Paul Berger
 Rabbi Daniel Cohen
 Rabbi Levi Feller
 Rabbi Moshe Kurtz
 Rabbi Shmuly Shmotkin
 Rabbi Yisrael Deren
 Rabbi Yossi Kamman
 Raphael Gilbert
 Richard Boxer
 Richard Schwartz
 Sam Sroka
 Scott Kove
 Simeon Wohlberg
 Steve Adelman
 Steven Cohen
 Steven Thau
 Yishai Zwiren
 
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 Don't see your name on this list? If you already attend or wish to make the commitment to consistently join a minimum of one minyan during the week, please contact Rabbi Kurtz (rabbikurtz@cas-stamford.org). Shacharis - 6:30am/7:30am; Mincha/Maariv - 15 Minutes Before Sunset. We would love to add your name to this growing list!
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 | Shacharit   Sunday: 7:15/8:30 AM; Monday-Friday: 6:30/7:30 AM
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 | Mincha   Sunday-Thursday: 5:30 PM; Friday: 5:32 PM
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 | Candle Lighting   Friday: 5:27 PM
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 | We Wish A Speedy Recovery To | 
 | | Tzvi Zev Yosef ben Chana ShulamitHershel Wolf  ben Brucha Chaya Sara  bat ChavaShlomo ben HaninaFreidel bat EstherAliza Alka bat MiriamChaya Shoshana bat YehuditNira bat RachelSara  bat Nira
 | Yitzchak Osher ben Chana Shauna ChayaNadav Ephraim ben Shlomit LeahMark Emanuel ben LeahShlomo ben VelvelDorit bat OraAsher Anshel Eliezer ben BailaLeah  bat TzirelMiriam Rut bat Chana
 | Daniel David Yitzchak  ben ShulamitChaya bat LibaHarav Eliezer ben Chayaאסתר רחל bat רייזל ביילהפרידה הדסה bat פערל לאהDov ben PninaMoshe Gavriel ben Rachel EstherSossie Raizel bat Sarah Fraida
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 | Nathan HNoam HYehudit Sally KOren L
 | Nathan LJeremy SMeni NYaniv HRachel W
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 | NEW Bris Gemach for the local Stamford Jewish community  You can now borrow a bris outfit and decorative pillow for your simcha. Items can also be donated as we build up our inventory. Please contact chani.kovacs@gmail.com for more information.
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 | Federation Hosts Social Media Influencer, Hen Mazzig  United Jewish Federation is excited to host Hen Mazzig on Wednesday, February 28 at 7:30 pm to share his personal story and outlook on Israel. Hen is a globally recognized speaker, educator, and digital influencer. Over 100 million users have interacted with his online content, and he has appeared as an expert on Jewish issues on four continents, over 500 college campuses, BBC, The Washington Post, SkyNews, TEDx, and countless Shabbat dinners. The event will be held at Congregation Agudath Sholom (301 Strawberry Hill Ave.) with tickets $18 in advance, $25 at the door, and sponsorship available at $180. Register today at www.ujf.org/hen to attend!
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 | Applications for the Lilly Reiser Scholarship are now being accepted  United Jewish Federation of Stamford, New Canaan, and Darien (UJF) is very excited to announce that applications are now being accepted through March 15th for the Lilly Reiser Scholarship, which will provide $10,000 college scholarships for nine Jewish students from New York and Connecticut per year.  Visit http://www.ujf.org/LillyReiser for more information and to apply.
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 | Join us for our inaugural J50 event, Name That Tune!  March 14, 2024 from 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm at the Stamford JCC. Test your musical knowledge of tunes from your childhood to today while mingling and matching with new people. Drinks and light bites will be served. Kosher dietary laws will be observed.  J50 is a 50+ community for fun, spirited and active adults looking to connect with likeminded people. J50 events will be held on the third Thursday of each month. MEMBER $20 / COMMUNITY $35 - Contact Joy Serata (jserata@stamfordjcc.org) for more information.
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 | It's Purim Party Time!  Dress up in your favorite costume and enjoy a festive night of fun at the young adults (20s, 30s, 40s) Purim Party on Thursday, March 21, 8:00 pm at Half Full Brewery in Stamford. A chance to celebrate Purim together with friends old and new, this holiday event is in partnership with UJF and UJF NextGen, Stamford Jewish Experience, Congregation Agudath Sholom, Moishe House Without Walls WOW, Chabad of Stamford, Young Israel, Temple Beth El, Temple Sinai, and Chabad of Harbor Point. Sign up today to join the Purim Party (www.ujf.org/purim) or contact UJF Community Shaliach, Yoav Yaron (yoav@ujf.org), for more information.
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 | Registration for 2024 Jewish Baseball League season is live!  FCCJBL is a co-ed, ages 4-12 year old little league and plays on Sundays only.  Season opener is 4/14. Please sign up on www.fccjbl.org. Please reach out to info@fccjbl.org with any questions.
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 | Schoke Jewish Family Service invites you to its annual gala, An Evening with Schoke JFS  Sunday, April 7, 2024 at 5:30 PM, at Temple Beth El, 350 Roxbury Road. Honorees include: The 44th Annual Mitzvah Award, Nan and Paul Gordon and Betsy and Michael Stone; Volunteer of the Year Award, Sally Kleinman; and Community Service Award, Ronnie Sichel. The evening will begin with appetizers, cocktails, followed by dinner, presentation of awards to the honorees, a paddle raise and dessert. There will also be an online auction. The event is chaired by Connie Freeman, Meryl Japha, Jillian Klaff, and Esther Rein with Jeri Appel as auction chair. General tickets include dinner and dessert for $250, purchase your ticket at www.ctjfs.org. Contact Janet Wainright at 203-921-4161 or jwainright@ctjfs.org to place a journal ad.
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 | Volunteers need for Aaron's Place, the Kosher Room at Stamford Hospital  Help us deliver and organize food and supplies, to make this a true respite. Please email ronsichel@aol.com
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 | Interfaith Seder to Unite Our Diverse Community   April 11th at 6:30pm, UConn Stamford, 1 University Place, Stamford, CT. Hosted by United Jewish Federation of Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, The Interfaith Council of Southwestern Connecticut, the Mayor's Multicultural Council and UConn Hillel. Using a specially designed Haggadah, the themes of the seder will include unity among varied cultures, backgrounds and faiths.  Rabbi Joshua Hammerman has worked on creating the event this year. It will be his last community event before his retirement. We hope that you can join us. For more information and to register: www.ujf.org/seder or contact Sharon Lewis, slewis@ujf.org
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